My last surviving grandparent died last week. This both was and was not a big deal, and consumed enough of my week that I was unable to work much on the blog, so posting will probably be light for a while until I can catch up.
Funerals remain horrible things that are not remotely consoling. I really have no idea why anyone would ever want one.1 There was more family politics involved with this one than with the other three grandparent funerals, about which I have Feelings, but this is probably not the place to describe those. Let's just say that I like the deceased less now than I did three months ago.2
While we wait for me to get new posts together, here is another batch of transmitted light photos.
(The previous transmitted light posts can be found here.)
Pilea nummulariifolia.
Solanum lycopersicum NOID.
Dracaena reflexa 'Riki.'
Acalypha wilkesiana cv.
Polyscias scutellaria.
Ctenanthe lubbersiana. (This one is probably my favorite from the set.)
Stapelia gigantea, petal.
Begonia NOID.
Quercus sp., autumn.
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Let's say somebody steals your car, but leaves a note behind telling you that they stole your car for a really, really good reason, a reason they decline to provide any specifics about. And then let's say that everyone you talked to about how your car was stolen immediately reacts with oh, that's too bad, but I'm sure they had a good reason for taking it, and well, you'll probably see the car again sometime, like on the street or something, right?, and how about we drone some songs at 1/4 speed about how awesome your car thief was: whaddya say? And you're all like, but I don't really want to sing about how awesome the car thief is, 'cause the fucker, you know, stole my car, and they're like but you have to sing, everybody's going to be expecting you to sing, if you don't sing then people are going to be upset.
This is what religious funeral services feel like to me, except more so, because people are more valuable than cars.
2 So in a roundabout way, I suppose the funeral was successful in making me feel less bad about the loss. Though I don't think that's how funerals are supposed to achieve that feeling.
3 comments:
Ahhh...my favorite! LEAF CLOSE UPS! Lovely and perfect! Gorgeous. For me, proof there is a God.
Family politics can often be a trial in and of themselves.
As far as things you heard affecting how you feel about the deceased, personally I'd advise you not to allow others' perspectives to influence you if you can. I had a great-aunt who apparently could be quite sharp (even "bitchy") in her dealings with her family members, as I learned at her funeral. However, she ALWAYS treated my folks and siblings and me well. I choose to remember her with that way.
Wow they are really spectacular. I wish i can collect leaf patterns like those.
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